How To Approach Women And Start A Fun, Flirty Conversation

Published: 25th January 2010
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I want to give you some quick tips on how to get a girls phone number. More specifically, these tips are about how to get a girls phone number during the daytime -- because every day you've got fantastic opportunities to meet ladies that you probably aren't taking advantage of.

Just think about the last time you saw an attractive girl while you were out during the day...and you would have really liked to talk to her and get her info, but you just weren't sure how to break the ice and make it happen?

The typical guy worries too much about how he is going to carry on an extended conversation. They might be okay with the idea of approaching women at bars, or parties..."social" locations where it seems more appropriate to approach girls and talk to them. (Particularly if the booze is flowing.)

Alas, this is the case with a lot of men. Away from "social" environments like bars and parties, they just don't feel capable of approaching women and starting conversations out of the blue.

Here's the resolution to this problem. I want you to stop worrying about having extended conversations with women in these situations. You simply need to get her phone number and email address, and her name, and then go on your way. Save the in-depth conversation for when you see her next time.

The truth is, you're going to get many MORE phone numbers and dates if you learn how to get a girls number FAST.

See, the longer you try to talk to a girl you just met, the greater the chance that she'll "disqualify" you for saying something stupid, or saying or doing something that she just doesn't find attractive.

First, always carry a small pad of paper and a pen with you. ALWAYS. There are several reasons for doing this, and one of them is to collect digits from girls. Instead of taking the time to type her info into your phone, it's more casual to hand her the paper and pen and have her write down her info for you.

Here's how you do it. You simply notice a detail about her appearance, or something she is doing at the moment. Maybe she's wearing an interesting piece of jewelry, or a nice dress or stylish pair of jeans. She could be carrying a cool-looking cell phone.

Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to buy something similar for a female friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. "Hey, I couldn't help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to pick out a gift, I think she'd love something like that...where did you get it?"

This "detail" can be anything. If she's shopping at the supermarket, you can notice something she's got in her cart and say, "Pardon me, I need to bring a dessert to a dinner party I'm going to tonight, and I'm wondering if you have a suggestion on something that's easy to make, but really tasty."

If you want to know how to get a girls number at a bookstore, use the same principle: "Hey, is that book you're reading any good? I'm trying to pick out a birthday gift for a friend -- she's a girl the same age as you -- and I'm wondering if you've read anything really good lately?"

Let her answer. You only need to have a few minutes of conversation with her, and then say, "I appreciate your advice, I'm going to go pick that up for my friend. Hey, do you have an email address? I'll let you know if my gift gets a good reaction."

Nine times out of then, the girl will say "yes" and now you're going to get her info. (Notice, you didn't ask her if you can HAVE her email address. You asked "if she has email." And every girl does, of course. The trick is, you act like she is now offering to give it you...and naturally, she will.)

So now you casually take out your pen and notepad and hand them to her. Act like this is a completely natural next step.

Then, as she writes down her email address, you say "write down your number also. And I didn't get your name..."

By acting as if it's totally normal for you to give you her information, she'll feel perfectly okay doing so. She won't even think twice about it.

It's when you ask women PERMISSION for these things that you might encounter some resistance. So, don't act permission when you want to get a girls number -- or for that matter, when you ask her for anything at all. You should always prompt women to go along with your flow. You can simply assume that she wants you to have her info, and she most likely will give it you.

After she gives it to you, wish her a good day and walk away. End this brief, friendly interaction on a pleasant note. You can contact her the next day and take things to the next step.

Understanding how to get a girls number is just one of the dozens of tactics you'll want to master. And as for how you're going to plan this "next meet" with her, I have some extremely strong methods to guarantee a successful outcome...

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